Welcome to Blogging with Coach PBJ, a space where faith, healing, mindset, and shadow work meet. These reflections are written to make you pause, think, heal, and begin your journey from shadows to shine.

Latest Reflections from Coach PBJ

Everybody Communicates. But Few Connect.

Everybody Communicates. But Few Connect.

Everybody Communicates. But Few Connect.Coach PBJ
Published on: 23/07/2026

For four months I sat in meetings nodding like everyone else. Nobody understood the assignment. Nobody said a word. This is what happens when gifted women stay silent and what it costs us.

When My Heart Is Overwhelmed

When My Heart Is Overwhelmed

When My Heart Is OverwhelmedCoach PBJ
Published on: 22/07/2026

An executive coach called me a jewel in front of my entire leadership team. They moved me to another position the next week. This is what I learned about what happens when your gift makes people uncomfortable.

The Loneliness of a Set Apart Life

The Loneliness of a Set Apart Life

The Loneliness of a Set Apart LifeCoach PBJ
Published on: 21/07/2026

My whole life relationships have been seasonal. My circle has always been small. For years I thought something was wrong with me. Then God showed me the truth about what it means to carry light.

What They Meant as a Setback

What They Meant as a Setback

What They Meant as a SetbackCoach PBJ
Published on: 19/07/2026

They passed me over four times. Every time they chose someone else they handed me the same assignment. Train the new person. This is what I learned while I was waiting.