Everybody Communicates. But Few Connect.
For four months I sat in meetings nodding like everyone else. Nobody understood the assignment. Nobody said a word. This is what happens when gifted women stay silent and what it costs us.

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For four months I sat in meetings nodding like everyone else. Nobody understood the assignment. Nobody said a word. This is what happens when gifted women stay silent and what it costs us.

An executive coach called me a jewel in front of my entire leadership team. They moved me to another position the next week. This is what I learned about what happens when your gift makes people uncomfortable.

My whole life relationships have been seasonal. My circle has always been small. For years I thought something was wrong with me. Then God showed me the truth about what it means to carry light.

They passed me over four times. Every time they chose someone else they handed me the same assignment. Train the new person. This is what I learned while I was waiting.